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My What, How & Why
What?
I help young adults who feel stuck find their authentic voice by uncovering the layers of their false selves, identifying their limiting beliefs and patterns that keep them stuck.
I support them in healing their inner wounds so they can start to live out of abundance rather than lack. I help them get out of autopilot and back into the driver’s seat.
How?
With my empathetic presence, I hold a safe space for you to express yourself freely. To allow your inner world to be seen, heard and validated. I support you to explore your depths through empathic listening, compassionate mirroring, breath and body work, etc.
Connect mind, body and soul.
A session lasts 1 hour on Zoom, unless we agree otherwise (sometimes in person in Ljubljana).
The language I use is either English or Slovenian.
Why?
The pain of seeing people not living their own life, their own truth or seeing people who love each other dearly hurting each other, because they are in the reactive mode on autopilot, projecting, recreating old patterns, basically coming from a wounded space.
It touches me deeply when people are seen for who they are, and not who others want them to be. I am a firm believer that all people are good at their core. They just had "bad" experiences that led them to the best protective mechanism they knew at the time, and now they can learn to know better and re-parent themselves.
My mission is to raise people's consciousness so that they will live, re-parent, and parent from authentic space (essence) and not from the conditioned (ego) state. We all have our own authentic purpose for this life and it is time to allow it to flow.
My Story
A short excerpt about my evolution…
I was confused and lost, not living myself. On the outside, everything was there and looked perfect, but on the inside something was missing. At the time, I could not pinpoint what it was. I was not aware that I was living the script that was handed to me. Making sure that along the way I was doing exactly what was expected of me. To please everyone. Not to hurt anyone. To say yes. To be kind. Not realizing that I was hurting the most important person. Myself. Ignoring my own needs and desires, not seeing myself, not hearing my own voice. Until the wake-up call came, in the form of losing my beloved mother to cancer. It was hard. It was raw, brutal, and hurtful. The pain was so intense that the false self was shattered and I had touched my true self. The ego was crushed and my true self emerged. Slowly I was heard, seen, and acknowledged by myself.
I transcended pain and gradually began to awaken to my senses for myself, not just others (which I was a master at as a bleeding empath). As someone who lived entirely through the mind, I suddenly discovered feelings and allowed them to guide me. It was scary at first and it took me quite a while to accept it and then return to the balance between mind and feelings. It was not easy, but it was so much more rewarding. Now I enjoy being present in the moment with all parts of my being, and it is my passion to help others do the same. My desire for people is to awaken to their truth and express it fully. In order to achieve this a constant work on ourselves is required. I encourage people to work on themselves before the wake-up call comes, whether it is in the form of an illness, loss, accident, unwanted child, divorce, etc. Unfortunately, it's in our nature to wait until things are really bad, and then we may ask for help or just sink deeper into our patterns and coping mechanisms.
I invite you not to wait any longer and get curious now. Take your life in your hands and disrupt the patterns that no longer serve you. Free yourself from the shackles of the past and allow yourself to be YOU. Freely, unapologetically, authentically you.
How I ended up becoming a coach…
The wake-up call brought me on this amazing journey of my evolution or as I like to call it coming back to self. Initially, I started working with psychotherapy. As I awakened to my own healing, I continued to grow through workshops and trainings as well as reading many books. Working as a project and financial manager for a decade I had the opportunity to work with very diverse people and noticed that people naturally gravitate to me and open up with their personal, intimate stories with such ease and trust. This got me thinking and ignited the spark within me. The inner calling to help others awaken to their truth became so loud that I could no longer ignore it. When I fully accepted and embraced it, the way forward showed itself. I found what I needed through the work of Dr. Shefali. First I did some courses and meditations with her and then the next step of joining her institute for coaches came naturally. I completed her certification program and became a Certified Conscious Parenting Coach. It's about how to re-parent ourselves by healing the wounds from our childhood to live freely in the present moment. How to unbecome who we are not in order to be who we truly are. Authentically. And from that space parent our children through deeper connection. Dr. Shefali's approach integrates Western psychology and Eastern wisdom in such a wonderful way, connecting the mind and the soul. During the program I got even closer to my truth, my essence, and now there is no going back to the old script. I now follow my own truth and walk my own unique path. The seeker in me then brought me to Dr. Gabor Mate's work, which focuses on the body and emphasizes compassion. I am now a trauma-informed coach and am currently completing the Compassionate Inquiry Short Course for Coaches, with facilitation developed by Dr. Gabor Maté and Sat Dharam Kaur ND.
These two profound approaches have influenced me the most as a coach, in addition to many amazing people and experiences. We are holistic beings and we need to embrace ourselves as such, fully integrated, constantly evolving.